When someone you really love leaves you, chances are you'd go running after her. By the time you have caught up on her, that is, if you'll ever catch up... you have lost valuable moments in your life. You have wasted a lot of energy and time. You have wasted your life. You have aged, but you were lonely... you were lost... you have turned bitter... you were all alone.
Do not waste your time running after a person who has left you. The mantra that says "if you love a person, set her free. If she comes back, she's yours. Is she does not, she never was" is actually, and sadly true. Hard, but true. It's the pain in accepting reality that actually makes us bitter.
The world is round place. So if you set on a journey on a straight line due east, you end up going in circles going that direction forever. Same thing with running after your love. If you run after her, you'd end up chasing after her forever. You would never catch up, unless you run fast. The consequence of running fast though, is you'd stumble along the way, you'd fall on your tracks and you might not be able to get up and run anymore. If you really love someone, and you have set her free, don't go on running after her. Try going to the opposite direction. One day, you would end up bumping into each other once again...
Do not waste your time running after a person who has left you. The mantra that says "if you love a person, set her free. If she comes back, she's yours. Is she does not, she never was" is actually, and sadly true. Hard, but true. It's the pain in accepting reality that actually makes us bitter.
The world is round place. So if you set on a journey on a straight line due east, you end up going in circles going that direction forever. Same thing with running after your love. If you run after her, you'd end up chasing after her forever. You would never catch up, unless you run fast. The consequence of running fast though, is you'd stumble along the way, you'd fall on your tracks and you might not be able to get up and run anymore. If you really love someone, and you have set her free, don't go on running after her. Try going to the opposite direction. One day, you would end up bumping into each other once again...
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Ah, how lost love can pain you...that you sometimes lose yourself to nothingness.
Carries a lot of burden within.
How you question 'How could I have' or 'What if'?
But this is what happens when love was dug deeply and intricately.
And suddenly lost in a blink.
But what if you were meant to love apart from each other?
She still is yours to keep no matter direction you each take.
Loneliness is just a state of mind, just as happiness is.
i never expected to read this. not todae. not when i was convincing myself that i am ok.that i am moving on.i can feel the pain..its crushing my veins and it hurts too much.
im no cry babie. and you have seen me before and i know you see me as a strong person. But see the bits and peices of me shattered like a broken crystal glass that fell on the floor after reading this.
its strange that my vision is getting blurry.yes, im not ashamed to say im about to cry.it hurts so much. i have posted in my bloggs my thoughts about this matter.about forgiving and forgetting..about how pain is a state of mind.on how to be strong.on how to stand up.on how to let go.
i just want to wake up one day and be free.free from my own manic depression.
damn.
my regards to you sir abbot.
i have pondered on those lines several times already. i wonder if it's really true. i have let go of so many persons in my life and no one came back. well, maybe, we are not really meant for each other or maybe, we'll cross each other's path someday. i don't know... the saying is too easy to say than done. especially if that person means a lot to you. sometimes, you think you have gotten over him, but the truth is, you're still waiting for the day that your paths will cross again.
what i can advice is to leave your past behind. past is past, you can do nothing about it anymore. just go on and continue fulfilling your dreams. besides, love is just a part of the scene. there are more important things to do than think of your frustrated loves. live not for the past, but for the future. live your life to the fullest. :)
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